Teen
Sex
by Diane J. Reed
Sex sells! We all know this. How can we not in a post-50 Shades
of Grey world where suddenly the cat is out of the bag and marketers know
full well that even middle-class mommies like their book club selections to
serve up hefty helpings of hot & steamy erotica? This recent phenomenon has
sent the publishing world ablaze, and now graphic sex scenes are cropping up
everywhere. But what happens when the sex starts to trickle down to mainstream novels
about teenagers?
Gulp!
This is precisely the issue that’s been keeping me awake at night
lately. Even when it’s handled “responsibly” in fiction (i.e., teens use
condoms), I still find myself cringing a little every time a 16 or 17 year old
gets it going on between the sheets. Do teenagers ever have sex that is glowingly
beautiful & mind-blowingly transcendent? Or is the truth more like an
awkward tangle of moist lips & body parts as they try to figure out how to
get things right? Part of me is concerned that writers are creating a fantasy
realm that has never existed for any teenager—and
on the top of that, are promoting risky behavior that might be emotionally
scarring for more vulnerable adolescents.
For this reason, I felt like I was
walking a tightrope of sexual tension with my first YA novel Robin in the Hood. My main character
Robin McArthur is only 15 years old when the novel begins, and she’s as
obsessed about sex as most girls her age. When she discovers her formerly
wealthy family is now broke, and out of desperation starts robbing banks to
make ends meet, she stumbles upon super hot Creek—a 17-year-old guy who has a
thing or two to teach her about crime. They soon become partners and the passion
and sparks fly. After they hone their skills by robbing a local ATM machine and
get separated, the following is their sexy reunion scene at a nearby lake:
“Take off your clothes,” a voice whispered at the edge of the lake
like a ghost.
It was still a bit misty out, and I thought I felt a warm breath
against the back of my neck—
I whipped around. There he was!
Creek, stripped to his torn jeans with his blonde hair dangling
against his shoulders again, as if the powers that be had somehow beamed him
right in front of me.
And he was grinning from ear to ear.
“You were a very bad girl today,” he remarked.
Unable to control myself, I hugged him with all my might, elated
that he’d made it out of Bob’s convenience store okay through God knows what
kind of messy miracle. And Lord, how I wanted to kiss him again! But I felt
like a fool with a bag of money and a t-shirt still bulging over my belly,
because I’d been too preoccupied to remove them till I’d succeeded in hiding
the motorcycle.
Creek broke away from me and gazed at my tummy with a laugh.
“You rocked it!” he said, patting my stomach.
“B-But how’d you get here so fast?" I gasped.
Creek’s lips slinked into a smile. He shook his head. “Sweetheart,
it ain’t hard to get a lift in these parts when you’re not wearing a t-shirt.
Now we gotta move—”
He slipped both his hands under my camisole, removing the money bag
and t-shirt and letting them fall with a thump to the sand. To my surprise, he
threw off my blonde wig and traced his fingers beneath my camisole straps,
tenderly lifting them over my head.
My heart ricocheted inside my chest. Oh my God—is this the part
where we have Post-Heist Sex?
Creek’s eyes arrested mine. They were still that hard blue, broken
by shards of glass in the middle like a guy totally focused on his mission. But
there was a softness at the edges as well, as if maybe he wanted to . . .
Protect me?
And kiss me at the same time—
Both urges warring inside him.
Well, I decided, no time like the present to test that theory!
I rushed my hands up his firm chest and clutched his face, pulling
his lips to mine for as much Heaven as I’d ever been allowed on this silly,
spinning planet.
And spin I did! Inside, I felt as if I my whole being had gotten
lost in a dreamy whirl. All traces of thought evaporated, only the smell and
feel of his hard skin and soft hair overwhelming my senses. I was tumbling end
over end, because no one had ever informed me that . . .
When you touch someone this beautiful—
It’s like falling into a pool of light.
And all of a sudden,
You’re that beautiful, too . . .
Creek’s hands surged up my bare back, and I couldn’t stop from
pressing my breasts against his chest—my scratchy, Pinnacle-issue bra be
damned—as my fingers nimbly undid the button and zipper on his jeans. I pulled
them down his legs like they were as easy to rip from his body as saran wrap,
and then I kicked off my shoes to do the same with my jeans.
Who was this girl??
I’d become a mighty blur—all animal on instinct and overdrive—who
was determined to make both our bodies sing in the sunshine and sand that
seemed to cry out for us to become one creature—
But then I felt Creek hoist my nearly naked body in his arms,
hugging me tightly to his chest.
He kissed me uncontrollably for a few seconds, when all at once his
lips broke free, and he rested his forehead against mine.
And he began to walk into the lake, gently carrying me, as though we
were heading for some strange, a spur-of-the-moment . . . baptism?
“Bloodhounds,” he said breathlessly, his gaze full of alarm. “Bob’s
got bloodhounds—”
From out of nowhere, I heard the echo of a chorus of dogs, their
deep resounding barks growing closer by the second.
With one last kiss, Creek released me to the water, sailing me
forward. The cold shock rushed to my neck, constricting my lungs and leaving me
heaving for air.
“Swim, Robin!” He ordered, pointing to an inlet of the lake covered
in shadows. “Swim with everything you’ve got!!”
As you can see, there’s a lot of sexual tension here but also so
much action that the characters don’t actually have time to sexually “connect”.
Yes, this is on purpose, because Robin is only 15, and I felt it would be
irresponsible to write casually about sex with a character who’s an underage
minor.
But what about the sequel? Yikes!
Robin will be 16 years old in the sequel to Robin in the Hood, where she goes on a journey to a foreign country
with Creek to find her long lost mother. Hello! They will be totally
unsupervised by adults in this story, and you KNOW they are going to have sex!
To pretend otherwise would be to commit one of the greatest crimes in fiction:
avoiding the truth. As much as I don’t want to promote irresponsible teen sex,
I also don’t want to be branded a downright liar . . .
So what to do?
Well, I could keep them running with lots of bristling action and
plot twists, to the total exhaustion of my poor readers.
Or, I could take a cue from Simone Elkeles’ novel Perfect Chemistry and Colleen Hoover’s novel
Hopeless—two well-written books for young
adults who go the “responsible” sex route. Yes, in these novels 16 & 17
year olds do have sex—but only once
in the entire story (although there are lots of passionate kissing &
detailed caressing scenes to fill up their 300+ pages). But in following their
lead, am I contributing to the moral demise of our country and/or
over-sexification of our youth?
God only knows. Let’s face it—teens have sex, pretty much no matter
what moment in time or society you put them in, and I just can’t bring myself
to be pollyanna about that. So I’m waiting until my female heroine Robin is at
least 16 in the sequel to allow my characters to fully embrace their natural sex
drives so I can sleep peacefully at night. And of course, I will want Robin’s
first experience to be downright heavenly—the kind of thing you only see in the
movies! Why? Because I don’t want to read about fumbling teens grunting and grinding
in the backseat of some car, and neither do you. Does this mean I’m leading
teens on just like other contemporary authors?
Well, there’s the rub. Perhaps if enough teens read these kinds of books,
they will insist that their earliest sexual encounters have some quality and
depth of meaning. Or maybe I’m just fooling myself? Since this is such new
territory, I’d love to hear your comments and thoughts on the matter, good or
bad. And until then, here is some food for thought: when I spoke to my local
librarian about the subject, she stated that if there is graphic sex in a
novel—regardless of whether it’s involving teenagers—the book gets shelved in
the “adult” fiction section of the library, period. The trendy publishing
labels of “New Adult” or “Mature Young Adult” simply don’t apply. Detailed
sexual encounters = Adult fiction, so in the end, it’s up to the parents to decide if their teens can
read such a book. Perhaps that’s where the final word on the matter really lies
. . .
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