Social Media –What the hell is that all about?
This may come as
a surprise to some of you, seeing the inordinate amount of time I spend on
Facebook, Twitter and elsewhere, but I have to confess that until I had my
first book published less than a year ago, I had NEVER been interested in
social media. In fact, I thought it was a crock of old s***.
There. I’ve said
it. I have outed myself and I don’t care. Gather the townsfolk, pick up those
pitchforks, light up those kerosene soaked thingamajigs and burn me at the
stake. Just make sure I’m really dead and
passed over or else I will come back to haunt you. Malevolent poltergeists have
nothing on me if I decide to make your life a misery. In fact, from some of the
comments I’ve heard and eye rolling I’ve seen lately, I have the ability to do
this when I’m still alive...Hell, I digress. Back to the wonders of social
media.
I was a bit of a
Mother Grundy when this topic came up. “What? Go online and talk to people I
don’t know? Are you kidding me? Why the hell would I want to waste time doing
that? I’d rather poke my eyes out with a blunt stick. ” Yes. *Sighs*. I’m
afraid I did say that. And you know what? It’s because I didn’t understand the
attraction and the power this medium has to offer in a world that is
increasingly heading towards cyber space. One has to keep up with the times.
So when my
publisher said to me, ‘Sue, you need to develop an author platform, an author
community so readers can find you,’ I gulped, hitched up my trousers and took
it like a man. I had no idea even where to start. Sure, I’d had a LinkedIn
account, which I managed with some hesitancy, afraid to poke it in case it
turned on me like a bear with a sore paw. The few friends I had in there hardly
saw me post anything new. I just invited people, built up contacts and did
nothing with them.
However- if I
hadn’t done this, I would never have found my current publisher. There is a
kooky karma to this particular story.
I’ll zip through it a little in short sentences and hope you get the
drift. Every word is true.
-Had a fan girl crush on a certain British actor. (Everyone in the
world knows who it is, so if you don’t, you’ve been out of touch. But if you
really want to know, head over to my website.)
-Stalked (I use that term loosely people, don’t go getting me
arrested) the internet and found a few people who were connected loosely to
him.
-One of them just happened to be a very talented composer, who’d
worked in theatre and as I was writing about film and theatre I thought he
would be well placed to help with my research.
-I invited him to ‘LinkIn’ with me. He did –silly blighter.
-We shared a few emails and conversations and he was really
supportive of my writing efforts.
-Then lo and behold, via this connection, suddenly I get a ‘LinkedIn’
invite from a company called Boroughs Publishing Group.
-I accept said invite with alacrity –they want to be linked in with
me? Wow. All my dreams have been realised.
-When it came time to submit to a publisher, I immediately thought of
them. I did some research, saw they were into what I was writing, sent my MS
off- and the rest is now history.
So – it worked.
And this I think is the essence of what it’s all about. You need to build
connections, network, reach people no matter who or what they are, because one
day, who knows what you could do for each other. And that’s another very
important part of this equation –it’s a two way street. What you take you need
to give back. And that’s hard work. If you keep taking and not giving back,
they are all going to finally get really pissed off with you and you’ll find yourself
alone.
I like to think
I do this. I try and promote and share the work of the people who do it for me.
Those who just take, after a while, I ignore them completely. My theory is, if
I can the time to do it, so can you. Excuses of no time, sick parrots, cakes
flopping in the oven and the plumber coming to visit (I think there’s a real
story in that one *winks* J) are no excuse.
And in becoming
what my publisher now calls with pride ‘a social networking guru’ and being
asked to give talks to my local writing circle around the topic, I feel proud
of what I’ve achieved. I have made some wonderful cyber friends, too many and
too special to mention them all. From two wonderful best- selling US authors, a
few inspirational men dealing with demons the rest of us can’t even imagine, a
lady who kindly proof read one of my books for the psychology aspects, fellow
authors who acted as beta readers, a crazy NZ author and a gal who I recently
had the pleasure of meeting for the first time and just random human beings out
there who support and guide me every day – I now realise what social networking
and media is all about, especially when you are trying to accomplish something
like sell your books and get your work out there.
And I do all
this without any guarantees of book
sales or any specific proof that what I’m doing is working at all (I have my
theories but that’s another blog post). The inherent truth is that I don’t
think anyone knows whether it works. I like this snippet-
Man praying:
‘God, I want to win the lotto. Please, I need a break.
I have no food,
no job, my family have left me and if I could win the lotto, that
would make
such a difference to my life. Please can you hear my prayer?”
Booming voice from on high: “You silly man, if you
want to win the lotto,
you have to buy a bloody ticket!!’
And that’s the
crux. If as an author, you don’t do it, you will never have the chance to know
if it works. A little like the butterfly in China flapping its wings and
affecting global events- the more you’re out there, the better the chances.
Randomness is the answer. Sorry if that sounds a bit Zen but I’m a firm
believer that the more seeds you sow, the more chance you have reaping
something one day when it’s your time.
I’m doing it
because without it, I wouldn’t have the experiences mentioned above and made
some wonderful contacts and friends. I wouldn’t be writing a book with someone
at the moment who has had a life that is stranger than any fiction I could have
written. I wouldn’t have become embroiled in worthy causes like helping sex
abuse victims, rape victims and championing gay rights.
So – Facebook,
Tweet, Pinterest, Goodreads, Instagram, Flickr, tumblr, Wordpress, Google+,
LinkIn away and have fun doing it without expecting your sales to soar
overnight. It takes time.
Time is what prevents everything from
happening at once. ~John Archibald Wheeler
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Great post, Sue. Everyone should heed your advice - you have, indeed, become the resident gurette of social media. ----This is us - clapping & bowing----
ReplyDeleteJill, thanks for hosting me on this wonderful site of yours. I'm so pleased to be here.
ReplyDeleteBoroughs, (or should I say Michelle :) thanks for the vote of confidence. We all do what we can every day to try and make a difference without knowing what the impact is. But as long as we have fun and try, I think that's all anyone can ask of us as authors.
What a great post Sue - you really are a force of nature! I've been inspired by your example. :-)
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